Conversation prompt generator

This free conversation prompt generator gives couples one question at a time from 60 prompts. Choose a depth (light, medium or deep) and a topic, such as fun, memories, dreams and future, appreciation, everyday life, or your relationship. Prompts do not repeat until you have seen them all. Take turns answering, and listen without trying to fix.

Free. Runs in your browser. Nothing you enter is saved or sent.

Get a conversation prompt

Choose a depth and a topic, then press Next prompt. Prompts do not repeat until you have seen them all.

60 prompts ready. Press Next prompt to begin.

Take turns answering. Listen without fixing, and it is always fine to pass on a question.

Your answers stay in this browser tab. Nothing is saved or sent anywhere.

How to use prompts well

  1. Start light. Save deep questions for when you both have time and energy.
  2. Take turns. One person answers while the other listens and asks a follow-up question.
  3. It is fine to pass. A prompt is an invitation, not a test.

Asking about your partner’s inner world is one way to build what John Gottman calls love maps. For a ready-made set, try our weekly check-in prompts, or use conversation prompts in the app.

This tool runs entirely in your browser. Nothing you enter is saved or sent anywhere, and you do not need an account.

Questions

What if a question brings up a hard topic?

Slow down and listen. You can agree to come back to it later. If a topic keeps turning into a fight, try the conflict pause timer first.

Can we use these on a date?

Yes. Pick light or medium prompts for dinner or a walk, and keep deep prompts for a quiet moment at home.

Want to keep practicing? Conversation prompts in the Stronger Couple app builds on this.