Trust & hard times
Articles about trust & hard times for couples: research-informed, practical and sourced. Start with the Trust and Hard Times: A Guide for Couples guide for the big picture.
Emotional Affairs: Signs, Causes and Next Steps
What counts as an emotional affair, common signs, why they happen, and how couples can address it honestly.
Updated , 9 min read
Fighting About Chores? Fixing the Mental Load
Unequal chores and invisible mental load fuel resentment. How to make the load visible and divide it fairly.
Updated , 10 min read
How Stress Affects Relationships (and How to Cope)
Outside stress spills into relationships. What research on stress spillover shows and how couples can cope as a team.
Updated , 9 min read
How to Rebuild Trust in a Relationship
Rebuilding trust takes consistent action over time. What helps, what slows recovery, and when professional support is wise.
Updated , 10 min read
How to Stop Fighting About Money
Money fights are rarely just about money. Uncover the values beneath them and use a calm process for money decisions.
Updated , 10 min read
Jealousy in Relationships: Where It Comes From
Where jealousy comes from, when it is a normal feeling and when it becomes controlling, and how to talk about it.
Updated , 9 min read
Mismatched Libidos: Handling Desire Differences
Desire differences are among the most common issues couples face. How to talk about them without blame, and when to see a professional.
Updated , 10 min read
Recovering From Infidelity: What Couples Should Know
An evidence-informed overview of affair recovery: common stages, what helps, and why a qualified couples therapist matters.
Updated , 11 min read
Relationship Anxiety: Signs, Causes and What Helps
Constant worry that your relationship will end? The signs and causes of relationship anxiety and steps that help.
Updated , 9 min read
Setting Boundaries With In-Laws as a Couple
How couples can set in-law boundaries as a team, with scripts for common situations and ways to protect your relationship.
Updated , 9 min read
When Your Partner Is Depressed: How to Help & Cope
How to support a partner with depression, care for yourself, and know when and how to encourage professional help.
Updated , 10 min read